Mediation Dedicated to Providing Efficient, Knowledgeable Legal Counsel

Raleigh Mediation Attorney

Individualized Attention and a Personalized Approach

At Vitale Family Law, we take a personalized approach to all our cases, especially when the matters clients bring to us are as emotionally charged and significant as family legal issues. Mediation is a common way for spouses to address certain disputes, and an experienced mediation lawyer can better help you prepare for your upcoming mediation sessions. Vitale Family Law will provide you with the individualized attention you deserve to address your concerns in mediation and work towards a favorable outcome.

What Is Mediation?

Mediation is a settlement negotiation between parties to a dispute that is guided by a neutral third party, or “mediator.” Mediation is a common settlement option for individuals to voluntarily resolve their dispute. Any issue can be submitted to mediation, such as child custody, support, and equitable distribution, and it is not necessary for a lawsuit to be filed in order to participate in the mediation process. Typically, in private mediation, the parties to this process are in separate rooms and are accompanied by their respective lawyers, who will provide advice and guidance throughout the negotiation process, drafting and reviewing settlement documents. The mediator, who usually travels between the two rooms, will not provide legal advice to the participants, but rather, they will relay offers and convey relevant information to help craft options for settlement. The mediation session is confidential and inadmissible as evidence in court, and a mediator may not be called to testify at a hearing.

The mediator does not decide who is right or wrong and does not make any decisions about the settlement. Mediators are trained to help parties to a dispute reach some common ground and resolution. Mediation affords spouses the decision-making authority, which they will lose if they go to trial for a judge to make the decision.

Note that in cases of custody mediation, parents are required to participate in all but a few limited circumstances such as when a parent resides more than 50 miles from the court or there are issues of domestic violence. If a parent wants mediation to be waived, a Motion and Order to Waive Custody Mediation must be filed.

Navigating Mandatory Custody Mediation in Raleigh

Lawyers do not attend mandatory custody mediation through the court program; only parents attend. To prepare for custody mediation required by the courts, individuals will likely be required to attend an orientation class. Note that it is possible for the other person involved in the case to be at the same orientation session.

Following orientation, there will be a mediation session of up to 2 hours. If parents need additional time, another session can be scheduled at the mediator’s discretion if the parties agree. If the parents reach an agreement in mediation, the mediator will prepare a written agreement, called a Parenting Agreement, which will be reviewed and signed by the parties and finalized by a judge.

If parents cannot reach an agreement in mediation or though settlement negotiations with their lawyers, they will need to schedule the case for trial, where a judge will hear and decide the final outcome of the case.

Support for Family Law Mediation in Raleigh

Living in Raleigh, you have access to a variety of local resources and support systems that can assist you through the family law mediation process. 

One of the common challenges faced by families in Raleigh is the emotional and logistical strain of custody disputes. With the city's growing population and diverse community, it's not uncommon for parents to live in different parts of the city or even in neighboring towns like Cary or Apex. This can complicate custody arrangements and make mediation a crucial step in finding a workable solution for both parties.

Compassionate & Personalized Support

At Vitale Family Law, we understand the unique dynamics of Raleigh's community. Whether you're dealing with the hustle and bustle of downtown or the quieter suburbs, our team can help you navigate the mediation process. We know that local traffic patterns, school districts, and community resources can all play a role in your custody arrangements, and we take these factors into account when advising you.

Additionally, Raleigh residents can benefit from the support of local organizations such as the North Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence, which provides resources and advocacy for those affected by domestic violence. If domestic violence is a concern in your case, it's important to know that mediation can be waived under certain conditions to prioritize your safety and well-being.

By choosing Vitale Family Law, you're partnering with a team that truly understands the Raleigh area and its residents. We are committed to helping you pursue a fair and favorable outcome in your family law mediation, taking into account the unique aspects of your situation and the local community.

Ready to Mediate? Contact Vitale Family Law in Raleigh Today

If you intend to pursue mediation to resolve a dispute in your divorce, such as child custody or property division, do not hesitate to reach out to an experienced mediation attorney for legal support. While the mediation sessions will be facilitated by a third-party mediator, it is best to work with an attorney to prepare for mediation, strategize and analyze offers with you at mediation, and to review and prepare any agreements that result from mediation. The legal team at Vitale Family Law can help you outline your goals and interests in mediation and ensure your rights are being protected as you agree upon the terms of any resolution.

Commonly Asked Questions

Is it necessary to have a lawsuit filed to participate in family law mediation in Raleigh?

No, it is not necessary to have a lawsuit filed to participate in family law mediation in Raleigh. Mediation is a voluntary process that can be initiated to resolve disputes related to child custody, support, and equitable distribution among other issues. It offers a confidential setting for parties to negotiate and reach an agreement without the need for court intervention. However, if an agreement cannot be reached through mediation, the parties may then proceed to file a lawsuit and have the case decided by a judge.

Can mediation be waived in Raleigh custody cases?

Yes, mediation can be waived in Raleigh custody cases under certain circumstances. For instance, if a parent lives more than 50 miles from the court or there are issues of domestic violence, they may not be required to participate in mediation. To have mediation waived, a parent must file a Motion and Order to Waive Custody Mediation. If granted, the case may proceed directly to trial where a judge will make the final decisions regarding custody.

  • 2025 Best Law Firms
  • Lori Vitale
  • Lori Vitale
  • Lori Vitale & Kim Wallis
  • Lori Vitale
  • Lori Vitale, 2011- Present
  • Lori Vitale, 2012- Present

Dedicated to Client Satisfaction

Read What Our Clients Have to Say
  • “I came to Lori at a very low point and in great need of help. Her professionalism, expertise, and compassion were evident throughout my experience with the firm. Everyone there treated me with great ...”

    - Alvin R.
  • “Lori is ‘The Best of the Best’ family lawyer in Raleigh.”

    - Mark W.
  • “Many Thanks to Vitale Family Law firm for helping me throughout my divorce case and I can definitely say they are uniquely qualified Raleigh family lawyers, no doubt about it.”

    - Edward J.
  • “With the help of Vitale Law Firm the issues got resolved in a peaceful manner.”

    - Susan D.
  • “Kind, yet professional, providing explanations and follow-through”

    - Ann T.
/

Why Hire Us?

Passionate About Helping People
  • When You Hire Our Firm, You Hire Our Entire Team
  • Attorneys Lori, Kim & Jennifer are Board Certified Specialists in Family Law
  • Over 50 Years of Combined Experience in Family Law
  • Exclusive & Intentional Focus on Family Law